I don't know whether or not I was being naive, but I didn't really expect anyone to comment so nastily on any of my posts. But, nevertheless, I feel I should respond to Dawn03...
Maybe Wifey has gone looking for a slimline model. I don't know - I'm a guy and so wouldn't pick up on something like that! I do respect myself though, but at the same time, I would probably respect myself even more if I was to lose three stone. Lots of people are overwieght; I chose to document my weight-loss on this blog to try and motivate myself to succeed. I figured that if people were tracking my progress, it might help me a bit. I certainly didn't expect people (you, in other words) to beat me up about it.
Would I have an affair with Girl One? I ask myself this a lot, and every time I come up with the same answer: too many people would get hurt. I said on this blog a while ago that when I got married, it was for life, not until someone else came along. I'm not looking for an affair and would try my very best to prevent one from starting; I'm not out to hurt anyone, merely just working through my life's options via my blog.
Life is hard at the moment and that is undoubtedly because of the difficulty in our family having two extra (very loud) mouths. Having a baby (or babies) is the biggest challenge any relationship could have to endure. Yes, our affections are centred elsewhere, so we both probably feel more unloved than we ever have done previously. And yes, there will be times when I am cold to her and she is cold to me. Having twins isn't easy. I certainly have found it far, far harder than I expected, and would guess that Wifey has too. We just have to work through that and (hopefully) come out smiling at the end.
I never started a blog in order to feel disciplined and intellectual. (And, frankly, you have no idea what disciplined and intellectual things I do - don't assume everything I do is documented here.) It's just a diary, nothing more, nothing less. The only difference is that people read it. I find it helps me get my thoughts together, feel better about life in general. And I use it to calm myself down too. If I rant on here, then I'm less likely to do so at home. Sorry if that offends you or you don't approve, but you don't have to read my blog. And you certainly don't have to be judgemental.
And regarding me being a house husband, it is the only option. Money dictates these things more often than not, and that is the case with me. To have three children cared for every day would simply be too much money and so I took the plunge. I never said I would be great at it, but I'm willing to give it a go and at the end of the day, that's the best anyone can do.
So, thanks for reading and commenting, but chill out a bit too, eh?
Bye bye.